Lady in the stree but a fReAk in the sheets....

What ever happened to this phrase?  Lately all we see are these women degrading themselves in all types of ways....whether it being dressing provocatively or talking like trash when out in public. Your only gonna catch the wrong types of dudes when you act this way, so stop complaining when you do meet a douchbag.  It IRKS me when I see a girl with her ass cheeks out and her titties all in a mans face but then complain that they are meeting all the wrong men.  Ladies....do yourself a favor and leave something to the imagination!  I'm not a hater or anything but I am sick of seeing all these girls degrading themselves just to catch a mans attention. 

Being a classy, sexy, sophisticated lady is more than enough to have a man look your way.  When its time for the bedroom...thats when you can let out your inner sex kitten.  You can relsease all your sexual inhabitions with him behind closed doors.  Its thrilling to know that he has a woman on his arm that knows how to act around his family friends but can also be his personal porn star when they are alone. 

Our society puts to much pressure on females to look and act a certain way.  We cant be SEXY all day long....I know that I'm not going to go to the grocery store with 6in stillettos on, are you?  Its really sad to see these everyday women trying to keep up with societies image of what we should look, dress and act like. Women have to wear alot of "hats" and I think this is a hat that we need to put to rest.  Be yourself.  Then when you and your man are all alone behind closed doors, thats the time to bring the freak out.  Dont try to give him a preview before he gained respect for you.  This will only make him NOT have respect for you....which then leads to him being the wrong guy. 

You want to be wifey material....not some notch on his belt that he can brag to his friends about later on.  Respect yourself and you will find a man that respects you just as much!  I am all for being a freak....but leave it in the privacy of you and your mans bedroom.